Vital Progenix Please remember that sometimes even women should take control in bed. Sometimes men like to be controlled. Old fashioned women still think that man has to take all the control in bed while having sex. But that is absolutely wrong. Women also should show that they are equally interested in sex and they need it badly. Bring to his notice that you want to have sex now, tell him what he has to do, because now you are the one who is dictating the rules. This type of behavior will make your man happy and excited.